This is a space where I, Sam, one part of the married duo, will share some of our everyday highs and lows in this crazy thing we call A Perfectly Imperfect Marriage.

 

With a strong emphasis on IMPERFECT!

 

"We do NOT DO because we cannot. We DO NOT do because we do not want to.  For when we want to do something we make a way."

What's Behind the Anger?

Anger is often seen as a powerful and uncontrollable force. When someone is angry, it can feel like an explosion of raw emotion. However, anger is actually a secondary emotion, which means it typically masks deeper, more primary feelings. Understanding what's behind the anger can help us address the...

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Your spouse doesn't have to change, you do.

Listen up my friends. If I can bestow upon you one tremendously important piece of information it is this. You can be the only person who changes and see great new beginnings.  

  

For some of us we are waiting for the person whom we love dearly to wake up and become the person we know they can be...

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How offended are you?

We've all encountered those moments when someone's words or actions rub us the wrong way, triggering a cascade of emotions. But why do some people seem continually offended while others remain cool as a cucumber? 

The answer lies in two words; unhealed and healed.

An unhealed person cannot see pas...

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