This is a space where I, Sam, one part of the married duo, will share some of our everyday highs and lows in this crazy thing we call A Perfectly Imperfect Marriage.
With a strong emphasis on IMPERFECT!
"We do NOT DO because we cannot. We DO NOT do because we do not want to. For when we want to do something we make a way."
In the journey of marriage, as in life, the rear-view mirror can be both a blessing and a curse. It offers glimpses of where we've been, reminding us of the roads we've traveled and the obstacles we've overcome. Yet, when our gaze remains fixed on the past, it can obstruct our view of the present...
I was reading recently, and a few key words stood out in a verse. They seemed to be in all caps and bold letters, might as well have even been underlined. This was in 2 Corinthians 5:20, "We are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were pleading thru you." Let’s start with a...
Every relationship goes through communication struggles. Somedays that struggle is to simply say nothing and avoid eachother, and other days it's filled with you both just trying to "help" the other see your point of view…. It's like that old saying, "communication is key," but what...
In a world where marriage is often romanticized and based on fleeting emotions, there's a profound truth that often gets overlooked: the strength of your marriage depends far more on your beliefs about God than on your feelings for each other. This might seem like a bold statement, so let's...
Let’s dive into a topic that can be both a fun, and touchy (pun intended), intimacy in marriage. Yes, you read it right – we’re going to be talking about a whole lotta hanky panky! But don’t worry, this isn’t your grandmother’s advice column. We’re here...
In a world where convenience often triumphs over commitment, it's easy to adopt a throwaway mentality. From disposable goods to fleeting relationships, the notion of "out with the old, in with the new" permeates our culture. But what happens when this attitude seeps into the most sacred of...
How do we infuse our mornings with the presence of Christ and nurture a mindset of love and grace towards our spouses, imperfections and all?
As certified marriage coaches deeply rooted in faith, we understand the importance of anchoring our marriages in the love and guidance of our...
Love isn't just about logic or words; it's about emotions, connection, and understanding. So, buckle up as we explore why it's irrelevant for a woman to "logically know" she's loved by her husband if she doesn't feel it in her heart.
In many marriages, we often hear phrases like "I told her I...
Here is one easy peezy blog to not only reflect on but to put into action. You've got to dish out that love, EVEN when, in the moment, you don't particularly "like"...
We all fight. Why? Well because we all have opinions and different ways of seeing things. Sometimes it's because we're...
Recently I read a blog written by Jason and Tori Benham and in it they talked about how important it is to laugh in your marriage. How when you laugh, especially in the midst of conflict, you "extinguish the anger that results from butting heads". I couldn’t agree more and wanted to remind...
Have you ever stopped to ponder what you're really listening to? I'm not just talking about the catchy tunes playing on your playlist or the latest episode of your favorite podcast. I'm talking about the deeper layers of influence that shape your thoughts, beliefs, and perspective on life.
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Hey friends! Today let's delve into a topic that hits close to home for many couples: resurrecting a dead marriage. We've seen it time and time again - relationships that seem beyond repair, marriages that have flatlined, and hearts that have grown distant. But here's the beautiful truth: just as...
