This is a space where I, Sam, one part of the married duo, will share some of our everyday highs and lows in this crazy thing we call A Perfectly Imperfect Marriage.

 

With a strong emphasis on IMPERFECT!

 

"We do NOT DO because we cannot. We DO NOT do because we do not want to.  For when we want to do something we make a way."

"The Power of 'We': How Individual Choices Shape a Strong Marriage"

In marriage, the idea that "what I do is still we" means that every action one takes as an individual still impacts the partnership. A wife who realizes this understands that her decisions, even those she makes alone, are woven into the fibers of their shared life. Whether it’s managing finances, pu...

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Marriage defense 101

When I think back to the beginning of my dating life, and the beginning years of my marriage, I shudder at how immature I was and how poorly I handled a lot of situations.

Through all of them there was one commonality, selfishness and expectation.

I expected everything to be centered around me. My...

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Examining SELF

This week Ive been writing about becoming the best version of you, no matter where your relationship is at. And how finding direction through Jesus is the best way to get there.

If you have not read my last two posts “Your spouse dosnt have to change, you do.” And “Becoming the best version of you,...

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