If you’ve been married longer than five minutes, you’ve probably discovered something: the world has plenty to say about marriage… most of it sounding good at first, but not holding up for long.

One of the most popular ideas floating around is the “perfect equation”:

50/50 = 100%.
“You do your hal...

In marriage, the idea that "what I do is still we" means that every action one takes as an individual still impacts the partnership. A wife who realizes this understands that her decisions, even those she makes alone, are woven into the fibers of their shared life. Whether it’s managing finances, pu...

Anger is often seen as a powerful and uncontrollable force. When someone is angry, it can feel like an explosion of raw emotion. However, anger is actually a secondary emotion, which means it typically masks deeper, more primary feelings. Understanding what's behind the anger can help us address the...

This week Ive been writing about becoming the best version of you, no matter where your relationship is at. And how finding direction through Jesus is the best way to get there.

If you have not read my last two posts “Your spouse dosnt have to change, you do.” And “Becoming the best version of you,...

Listen up my friends. If I can bestow upon you one tremendously important piece of information it is this. You can be the only person who changes and see great new beginnings.  

For some of us we are waiting for the person whom we love dearly to wake up and become the person we know they can be...

Throughout the bible we see many with an inflated sense of self. The bible starts right off with satan who wants to be at the same level as God (Isaiah 14:13-15) and then slyly duping Eve into the same frame of mind (Genesis 3:4-6). And let me add this little caveat, right from the beginning, litera...

I often think I've got my hubby all figured out, then we have a little argument or disagreement, and we are both left looking at each other like, what alien ship swung buy and traded out bodies!

I know it is safe to say others have faced this same dilemma, just when you think you know your hu...

We've all encountered those moments when someone's words or actions rub us the wrong way, triggering a cascade of emotions. But why do some people seem continually offended while others remain cool as a cucumber? 

The answer lies in two words; unhealed and healed.

An unhealed person cannot see pas...

When you think of your marriage what comes to mind? How do you see your hubby/wife?

Confrontational, angry, nitpicky, nag, procrastinator…..

Ally, partner, openminded, go-getter, joyful….

How you see will determine how you will act.

“If you want small changes in your life, work on your attitude....

In the journey of marriage, as in life, the rear-view mirror can be both a blessing and a curse. It offers glimpses of where we've been, reminding us of the roads we've traveled and the obstacles we've overcome. Yet, when our gaze remains fixed on the past, it can obstruct our view of the present an...