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She Doesn’t Need You to Fix It… She Needs You to Hear Her (The Power of Listening Right)

When your wife is in pain or struggling, it's essential to recognize that she isn't broken—she's hurting. This distinction is crucial. Pain and struggle are a part of life, and they don't define her worth or capability. Instead of viewing her as someone who needs fixing, see her as someone who needs...

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Stop Letting the Enemy Win: How to Protect Your Marriage Before It Breaks Down

When I think back to the beginning of my dating life, and the beginning years of my marriage, I shudder at how immature I was and how poorly I handled a lot of situations.

Through all of them there was one commonality, selfishness and expectation.

I expected everything to be centered around me. My...

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The Words That Heal… Or Hurt: How What You Say Shapes Your Marriage

 When you tell someone, “I love you. I’m proud of you. You did an amazing job.”  

You’re not just being kind; you are sending out waves of healing.  

Healing over minds. Mending the wounds of past hurts and healing over hearts. 

Let’s face it, even with the person who we have devoted our earthly ...

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If You Practice Fighting… You’ll Get Good at It (Here’s How to Break the Cycle)

Here is one easy peezy blog to not only reflect on but to put into action. You've got to dish out that love, EVEN when, in the moment, you don't particularly "like"...

We  all fight. Why? Well because we all have opinions and different ways of seeing things. Sometimes it's because we're tired and o...

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No One Teaches You How to Be Married… So Let’s Start Here

This past weekend I was away for my birthday camping, it was absolutely AMAZING!

I had the most perfectly quiet Saturday morning while everyone else was sleeping, to spend with God and my pen.


I encourage each of you to read and then take some time and write your own marriage story.

Let me be compl...

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