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She Doesn’t Need You to Fix It… She Needs You to Hear Her (The Power of Listening Right)

When your wife is in pain or struggling, it's essential to recognize that she isn't broken—she's hurting. This distinction is crucial. Pain and struggle are a part of life, and they don't define her worth or capability. Instead of viewing her as someone who needs fixing, see her as someone who needs...

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It’s Not “Me vs You”… It’s “We”: How Small Choices Shape a Strong Marriage

In marriage, the idea that "what I do is still we" means that every action one takes as an individual still impacts the partnership. A wife who realizes this understands that her decisions, even those she makes alone, are woven into the fibers of their shared life. Whether it’s managing finances, pu...

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What Real Love Looks Like When It Doesn’t Feel Easy Anymore

Have you ever read the book Song of Solomon? It is the 22nd book in the bible and I'd say it could almost be considered a Romantasy, except it's not fantasy! But, it does have a whole lot of sultry romance, a younger me would have blushed at.

 

This is a story about a man and woman who are madly a...

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Let’s Talk About Intimacy: What Your Marriage Might Be Missing

Let’s dive into a topic that can be both a fun, and touchy (pun intended😉), intimacy in marriage. Yes, you read it right – we’re going to be talking about a whole lotta hanky panky! But don’t worry, this isn’t your grandmother’s advice column. We’re here to sprinkle some humor and practical tips on ...

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When Your Marriage Feels Dead… Is It Too Late to Bring It Back?

Hey friends! Today let's delve into a topic that hits close to home for many couples: resurrecting a dead marriage. We've seen it time and time again - relationships that seem beyond repair, marriages that have flatlined, and hearts that have grown distant. But here's the beautiful truth: just as Je...

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Why Feelings Fade… and What Actually Builds a Strong Marriage

In a world where love stories are often depicted as whirlwind romances, filled with passion and intense emotions, it's easy to get swept away by the notion of falling "in love." We're bombarded with images of couples lost in the throes of infatuation, where every moment feels like a fairytale. But w...

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To My Spouse: What I Wish I Could Say (But Don’t Always Know How)
You know, writing a love letter to your spouse can be a game-changer in your relationship. It's like pouring out your heart on paper and letting them know just how much they mean to you. About a week ago I did just that. I sat down with a pen and paper and made a list of all the ways Ron has contrib...
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What Real Freedom in Marriage Looks Like (It’s Not What You Think)

Marriage, “A Limit on Freedom” 

Ephesians 4:2 Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. 

  

This week I would like to pour into you, both. The ones who are struggling. The ones who have it all together. The ones who can...

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