This week Ive been writing about becoming the best version of you, no matter where your relationship is at. And how finding direction through Jesus is the best way to get there.

If you have not read my last two posts “Your spouse dosnt have to change, you do.” And “Becoming the best version of you,...

Listen up my friends. If I can bestow upon you one tremendously important piece of information it is this. You can be the only person who changes and see great new beginnings.  

For some of us we are waiting for the person whom we love dearly to wake up and become the person we know they can be...

Throughout the bible we see many with an inflated sense of self. The bible starts right off with satan who wants to be at the same level as God (Isaiah 14:13-15) and then slyly duping Eve into the same frame of mind (Genesis 3:4-6). And let me add this little caveat, right from the beginning, litera...

I often think I've got my hubby all figured out, then we have a little argument or disagreement, and we are both left looking at each other like, what alien ship swung buy and traded out bodies!

I know it is safe to say others have faced this same dilemma, just when you think you know your hu...

We've all encountered those moments when someone's words or actions rub us the wrong way, triggering a cascade of emotions. But why do some people seem continually offended while others remain cool as a cucumber? 

The answer lies in two words; unhealed and healed.

An unhealed person cannot see pas...

 When you tell someone, “I love you. I’m proud of you. You did an amazing job.”  

You’re not just being kind; you are sending out waves of healing.  

Healing over minds. Mending the wounds of past hurts and healing over hearts. 

Let’s face it, even with the person who we have devoted our earthly ...

When you think of your marriage what comes to mind? How do you see your hubby/wife?

Confrontational, angry, nitpicky, nag, procrastinator…..

Ally, partner, openminded, go-getter, joyful….

How you see will determine how you will act.

“If you want small changes in your life, work on your attitude....

Have you ever read the book Song of Solomon? It is the 22nd book in the bible and I'd say it could almost be considered a Romantasy, except it's not fantasy! But, it does have a whole lot of sultry romance, a younger me would have blushed at.

This is a story about a man and woman who are madly a...

 Grace, it invites us to transform. Each day we fall short of the grace God freely gives us. We are grumpy that our spouse didn’t put their dirty cup in the sink befor they headed off to work. Or, we got short with them when they didn’t agree with something we said.

Grace says, do not stay where yo...

In the journey of marriage, as in life, the rear-view mirror can be both a blessing and a curse. It offers glimpses of where we've been, reminding us of the roads we've traveled and the obstacles we've overcome. Yet, when our gaze remains fixed on the past, it can obstruct our view of the present an...