This is a space where I, Sam, one part of the married duo, will share some of our everyday highs and lows in this crazy thing we call A Perfectly Imperfect Marriage.

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With a strong emphasis on IMPERFECT!

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"We do NOT DO because we cannot. We DO NOT do because we do not want to.Ā  For when we want to do something we make a way."

Why Feeling Loved Matters Most (Guys pay attention!)

Love isn't just about logic or words; it's about emotions, connection, and understanding. So, buckle up as we explore why it's irrelevant for a woman to "logically know" she's loved by her husband if she doesn't feel it in her heart.

In many marriages, we often hear phrases like "I told her I...

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If you work at fighting. You'll win at fighting!

Here is one easy peezy blog to not only reflect on but to put into action. You've got to dish out that love, EVEN when, in the moment, you don't particularly "like"...

We  all fight. Why? Well because we all have opinions and different ways of seeing things. Sometimes it's because we're...

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Laughter; the potent medicine~

Recently I read a blog written by Jason and Tori Benham and in it they talked about how important it is to laugh in your marriage. How when you laugh, especially in the midst of conflict, you "extinguish the anger that results from butting heads". I couldn’t agree more and wanted to remind...

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What voice is in your ear these days.....

Have you ever stopped to ponder what you're really listening to? I'm not just talking about the catchy tunes playing on your playlist or the latest episode of your favorite podcast. I'm talking about the deeper layers of influence that shape your thoughts, beliefs, and perspective on life.

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Resurrecting a Dead Marriage

Hey friends! Today let's delve into a topic that hits close to home for many couples: resurrecting a dead marriage. We've seen it time and time again - relationships that seem beyond repair, marriages that have flatlined, and hearts that have grown distant. But here's the beautiful truth: just as...

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From Temporary "In Love" to Lasting Loveā€¦

In a world where love stories are often depicted as whirlwind romances, filled with passion and intense emotions, it's easy to get swept away by the notion of falling "in love." We're bombarded with images of couples lost in the throes of infatuation, where every moment feels like a fairytale....

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To my husband (or wife, or fiancƩ).....
You know, writing a love letter to your spouse can be a game-changer in your relationship. It's like pouring out your heart on paper and letting them know just how much they mean to you. About a week ago I did just that. I sat down with a pen and paper and made a list of all the ways Ron has...
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Is your marriage in shambles?
Recently, Ron and I have both spoken with quit a few people who are either desperate to fix their marriage or end their marriage. Unfortunately, the higher number seems to be leaning toward "end their marriage."
 
The one question we are ask the most, should I/we just end it? And the one...
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Finding Faith
Every day I find myself rushing around. So much to do. So many appointments to meet. So many tasks to check off my list, both on paper and the items in my mind piling up.
 
How about you?
I'm fairly certain more than half of you reading this are nodding your head, and thinking, if I don't...
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Unresolved Issues

I bet when you got married you had no idea that you were signing up for a set of UNRESOLVAVLE issues. Things that your spouse loves, and you, not so much. And things you love, and your spouse, not, so, much.

How do you both deal with these differences.

Do you pout? Throw around some guilt...

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Freedom In Marriage

Marriage, “A Limit on Freedom” 

Ephesians 4:2 Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. 

  

This week I would like to pour into you, both. The ones who are struggling. The ones...

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Tourist or Traveler

Are you a tourist or a traveler in your marriage?

A tourist wants to escape everyday life.

A Traveler wants an experience the journey and the sights.

Just like exploring new places, your marriage is an adventure filled with ups, downs, and incredible experiences. So, fasten your seat belt and...

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