This is a space where I, Sam, one part of the married duo, will share some of our everyday highs and lows in this crazy thing we call A Perfectly Imperfect Marriage.

 

With a strong emphasis on IMPERFECT!

 

"We do NOT DO because we cannot. We DO NOT do because we do not want to.  For when we want to do something we make a way."

Unquenchable Love

Have you ever read the book Song of Solomon? It is the 22nd book in the bible and I'd say it could almost be considered a Romantasy, except it's not fantasy! But, it does have a whole lot of sultry romance, a younger me would have blushed at.

 

This is a story about a man and woman who are...

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Leaning on Gods word

This past Sunday was Mothers day and our church had a wonderful panel of moms lined up to give their sound advise. They spoke into the lives of moms walking through every phase of parenting. I believe, much as I could relate with each of them in one way or another, so did other moms. As I sat...

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'Marriage & Motherhood is daily'

Let me start here, with the young, know this, motherhood is wonderful. There will be many ups and downs, but the joy of every new day outweighs them all. When I was young I knew that one day I would be a mother, and I looked forward to that day. I don’t know that I ever truly knew what a...

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Grace challenges us all. How to make a marriage last thru the tests of time…………….

 Grace, it invites us to transform. Each day we fall short of the grace God freely gives us. We are grumpy that our spouse didn’t put their dirty cup in the sink befor they headed off to work. Or, we got short with them when they didn’t agree with something we said.

Grace says,...

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What are you willing to give up

I’ve heard this a lot, “I do all the dishes. I wash all the laundry. I work all day. I make dinner every night…..What do I get out of all of this? I am shown no appreciation for anything I do!” And, as a matter of fact, I used to say all the same things, and then some. It...

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Letting Go of the Past to Save Yourself and Your Marriage

In the journey of marriage, as in life, the rear-view mirror can be both a blessing and a curse. It offers glimpses of where we've been, reminding us of the roads we've traveled and the obstacles we've overcome. Yet, when our gaze remains fixed on the past, it can obstruct our view of the present...

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Are you an ambassador for Christ or for yourself?

I was reading recently, and a few key words stood out in a verse. They seemed to be in all caps and bold letters, might as well have even been underlined.  This was in 2 Corinthians 5:20, "We are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were pleading thru you." Let’s start with a...

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LISTEN LIKE A ROCK!

Every relationship goes through communication struggles. Somedays that struggle is to simply say nothing and avoid eachother, and other days it's filled with you both just trying to "help" the other see your point of view…. It's like that old saying, "communication is key," but what...

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Who's your Hero?

In a world where marriage is often romanticized and based on fleeting emotions, there's a profound truth that often gets overlooked: the strength of your marriage depends far more on your beliefs about God than on your feelings for each other. This might seem like a bold statement, so let's...

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A Whole Lotta Hanky Panky

Let’s dive into a topic that can be both a fun, and touchy (pun intended), intimacy in marriage. Yes, you read it right – we’re going to be talking about a whole lotta hanky panky! But don’t worry, this isn’t your grandmother’s advice column. We’re here...

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Keep the bulb, burn down the house

In a world where convenience often triumphs over commitment, it's easy to adopt a throwaway mentality. From disposable goods to fleeting relationships, the notion of "out with the old, in with the new" permeates our culture. But what happens when this attitude seeps into the most sacred of...

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Starting Each Day with Love & Grace

How do we infuse our mornings with the presence of Christ and nurture a mindset of love and grace towards our spouses, imperfections and all?

 

As certified marriage coaches deeply rooted in faith, we understand the importance of anchoring our marriages in the love and guidance of our...

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