Let me start here, with the young, know this, motherhood is wonderful. There will be many ups and downs, and the joy of every new day outweighs them all. When I was young I knew that one day I would be a mother, and I looked forward to that day. I don’t know that I ever truly knew what a journey it ...

Most couples don’t wake up one morning suddenly disconnected.

It usually happens slowly.

A few unresolved arguments here.
A little less communication there.
More stress. More exhaustion. Less patience.
Before long, two people who genuinely love each other start feeling more like roommates, coworke...

Trying to find faith...........

Not every marriage struggle is loud.

Some are hidden behind locked phones.
Late nights.
Excuses.
Mood swings.
Distance.
Silence.
“I’m fine.”
“We’re okay.”

Porn.
Alcohol.
Drugs.

Secret addictions that slowly pull two people apart while the rest of the world thinks everythin...

When your wife is in pain or struggling, it's essential to recognize that she isn't broken—she's hurting. This distinction is crucial. Pain and struggle are a part of life, and they don't define her worth or capability. Instead of viewing her as someone who needs fixing, see her as someone who needs...

If you’ve been married longer than five minutes, you’ve probably discovered something: the world has plenty to say about marriage… most of it sounding good at first, but not holding up for long.

One of the most popular ideas floating around is the “perfect equation”:

50/50 = 100%.
“You do your hal...

In marriage, the idea that "what I do is still we" means that every action one takes as an individual still impacts the partnership. A wife who realizes this understands that her decisions, even those she makes alone, are woven into the fibers of their shared life. Whether it’s managing finances, pu...

When I think back to the beginning of my dating life, and the beginning years of my marriage, I shudder at how immature I was and how poorly I handled a lot of situations.

Through all of them there was one commonality, selfishness and expectation.

I expected everything to be centered around me. My...

Anger is often seen as a powerful and uncontrollable force. When someone is angry, it can feel like an explosion of raw emotion. However, anger is actually a secondary emotion, which means it typically masks deeper, more primary feelings. Understanding what's behind the anger can help us address the...

This week Ive been writing about becoming the best version of you, no matter where your relationship is at. And how finding direction through Jesus is the best way to get there.

If you have not read my last two posts “Your spouse dosnt have to change, you do.” And “Becoming the best version of you,...

Listen up my friends. If I can bestow upon you one tremendously important piece of information it is this. You can be the only person who changes and see great new beginnings.  

For some of us we are waiting for the person whom we love dearly to wake up and become the person we know they can be...