If you’ve been married longer than five minutes, you’ve probably discovered something: the world has plenty to say about marriage… most of it sounding good at first, but not holding up for long.

One of the most popular ideas floating around is the “perfect equation”:

50/50 = 100%.
“You do your hal...

When I think back to the beginning of my dating life, and the beginning years of my marriage, I shudder at how immature I was and how poorly I handled a lot of situations.

Through all of them there was one commonality, selfishness and expectation.

I expected everything to be centered around me. My...

This week Ive been writing about becoming the best version of you, no matter where your relationship is at. And how finding direction through Jesus is the best way to get there.

If you have not read my last two posts “Your spouse dosnt have to change, you do.” And “Becoming the best version of you,...

Have you ever read the book Song of Solomon? It is the 22nd book in the bible and I'd say it could almost be considered a Romantasy, except it's not fantasy! But, it does have a whole lot of sultry romance, a younger me would have blushed at.

This is a story about a man and woman who are madly a...

In the journey of marriage, as in life, the rear-view mirror can be both a blessing and a curse. It offers glimpses of where we've been, reminding us of the roads we've traveled and the obstacles we've overcome. Yet, when our gaze remains fixed on the past, it can obstruct our view of the present an...

I was reading recently, and a few key words stood out in a verse. They seemed to be in all caps and bold letters, might as well have even been underlined.  This was in 2 Corinthians 5:20, "We are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were pleading thru you." Let’s start with a breakdown of what it m...

In a world where marriage is often romanticized and based on fleeting emotions, there's a profound truth that often gets overlooked: the strength of your marriage depends far more on your beliefs about God than on your feelings for each other. This might seem like a bold statement, so let's unpack i...

How do we infuse our mornings with the presence of Christ and nurture a mindset of love and grace towards our spouses, imperfections and all?

As certified marriage coaches deeply rooted in faith, we understand the importance of anchoring our marriages in the love and guidance of our Savior, Jesu...

Have you ever stopped to ponder what you're really listening to? I'm not just talking about the catchy tunes playing on your playlist or the latest episode of your favorite podcast. I'm talking about the deeper layers of influence that shape your thoughts, beliefs, and perspective on life.

In Pr...

Hey friends! Today let's delve into a topic that hits close to home for many couples: resurrecting a dead marriage. We've seen it time and time again - relationships that seem beyond repair, marriages that have flatlined, and hearts that have grown distant. But here's the beautiful truth: just as Je...